Broken Bonds

Relationships, friendships, marriages do go bad. Love fades and bonds get broken. When that happens, one would expect any kind of reaction from these people who make up our past.
Except for murder and betrayal, i personally wouldn't expect total wipe out and permanent blockage from any of such people from my past. After all, love is said to be the basis of everything and like the general overseer of the synangogue church of all nations, Pastor TB Joshua says, "without love, we are nothing".
As well, the past is a reflection of the present.
Hence, anyone's reaction, behavior or attitude towards you in the present after a broken bond, should in one way or the other, reflect what you shared in the past.
Hatred awakens lots of negative and ill-feelings in people.
If your bond with a love one gets broken, and you on the other hand create an "eewww feeling" in your partner, then you should look forward to awaken his hate.
Yet again,
like i stated early on, the past is a reflection of the present and so if your partner cannot in anyway forgive, overlook or stand the sight of you, then the initial bond you had is questionable! Did it exist? Could it be that you were blind not to have noticed it never did?
In my personal experience with a relative who is an aunt, our relationship went bad. Initially, we were like two teenagers living together and having fun when she was really the older one, had control and could use it; until someone came in and destroyed that bond.
We became total strangers living together and the best i could do was leave and never go back.
But amazingly on new year celebration, she went over to visit me, not my dad, her cousin nor my mum, her in-law.
She went over to fix a broken bridge with warm greetings, a hug, good wishes and a bottle of Champaign to celebrate.
To this effect, you would realize that with love, there is no room for total wipe out.
That is what love is.
Truth be told, the people we love hurt us the most yet they are the only ones who can ever give us joy. The amount of love we have and share with someone, equals the amount of hurt and pain they cause us with their every action and inaction.
No matter the "eeeww feeling" you create after a broken bond, that bond becomes a hold on your aftermath actions against that partner unless of course, it never ever existed.
Let Love Lead