Broken Bonds

Relationships, friendships, marriages do go bad. Love fades and bonds get broken. When that happens, one would expect any kind of reaction from these people who make up our past.
Except for murder and betrayal, i personally wouldn't expect total wipe out and permanent blockage from any of such people from my past. After all, love is said to be the basis of everything and like the general overseer of the synangogue church of all nations, Pastor TB Joshua says, "without love, we are nothing".
As well, the past is a reflection of the present.
Hence, anyone's reaction, behavior or attitude towards you in the present after a broken bond, should in one way or the other, reflect what you shared in the past.
Hatred awakens lots of negative and ill-feelings in people.
If your bond with a love one gets broken, and you on the other hand create an "eewww feeling" in your partner, then you should look forward to awaken his hate.
Yet again,
like i stated early on, the past is a reflection of the present and so if your partner cannot in anyway forgive, overlook or stand the sight of you, then the initial bond you had is questionable! Did it exist? Could it be that you were blind not to have noticed it never did?
In my personal experience with a relative who is an aunt, our relationship went bad. Initially, we were like two teenagers living together and having fun when she was really the older one, had control and could use it; until someone came in and destroyed that bond.
We became total strangers living together and the best i could do was leave and never go back.
But amazingly on new year celebration, she went over to visit me, not my dad, her cousin nor my mum, her in-law.
She went over to fix a broken bridge with warm greetings, a hug, good wishes and a bottle of Champaign to celebrate.
To this effect, you would realize that with love, there is no room for total wipe out.
That is what love is.
Truth be told, the people we love hurt us the most yet they are the only ones who can ever give us joy. The amount of love we have and share with someone, equals the amount of hurt and pain they cause us with their every action and inaction.
No matter the "eeeww feeling" you create after a broken bond, that bond becomes a hold on your aftermath actions against that partner unless of course, it never ever existed.
Let Love Lead

The year 2013

In the year 2013, i allowed my life take a new turn and a whole new dimension. God made things happen and i embraced them.
My life experienced new happiness with friends, loved ones and people i placed total trust in. I could not ask for more.
In the year 2013, i learnt not to give up and that inspired my actions as a more responsibile person, who will take up duties and have them done in time.
The beauty about this year that am certain may not be able to easily clear from my heart and mind, is my love life that went sour.
How do i refer to it, the oxymoron bitter-sweet,? I am not certain on that but it was all beautiful at the beginning, very beautiful. I enjoyed it growth but like a plant will die without the necessary nutrients, it died down.
Did i not nurture it well to have it grow or it was not meant to be?
But lets look at this, when one is filled with the happiness that blinds, is one capable of noticing all the wrongs around one?
Maybe, maybe not. But you know the feeling of having to realize all the wrongs around you at a very late hour? Haha! How stupid you feel then! But hey! It's all worth it right? Because you get to accept,learn and gather the best experiences you can so as to move on either the hard way or the easy way.
Look at success. The year 2013 didn't give me a mansion, car or money that i have to bless others with but,it was a successful year for me.
My success was in my academic improvement. Oh my! Anytime i think of success, i see my face bloom with a radiance and my  heart gets lighter. That's because although almost everyone will associate success with riches, i know God gives you exactly what you need at every stage of your life and as at now, the focus of my life is education and i can't be thankful enough.
Aww friends. How i love the few i have but my mind will not stop at prompting me about the second law of power. Friends are so cunning sometimes that in this year, no matter the love i have for mine, i had to grow cautious n wary of some.
My wrongs. I know i am not perfect and as all human, i have a defect and i have surely done a couple of negative and ill stuffs but i can't be the best judge of my life hence to all dear ones, don't hesitate to point out what you possibly see wrong in my actions.
In all these, i lived a happy life with the goodness, love, grace and glory of my Lord and saviour Jesus in it. The least i can say is merci mon Dieu fidèle. Amen